Tag Archive for: Bean

DVDs, Smoothies, & the Soft Refusal of a Monday

Ugh, it’s Monday. That sentence alone could stand in for the entire morning. The light came through the blinds too gray, too early. Like the sky forgot to turn itself on. I put on a sweater and a purple V-neck, layering comfort like armor. Shuffled toward the kitchen in my husband’s sweatshirt—the one with the […]

To-Go Mugs, Gut Checks, and the Quiet Poetry of Coming Home

Just got back from camping with my husband. I should say “with my husband and Bean,” but it never really feels like we travel with her. More like she leads the way, and we, soft-footed and perpetually under-caffeinated, stumble after her—carrying the bags, meds, toys, and diapers. All the things. It was fun, yes. Bean […]

Educating with Grace: Why I’m Choosing Curiosity Over Outrage When People Stare at My Special Needs Daughter

Trying not to be a “Karen” about my special needs daughter when people stare or ask honest questions is… a journey. And not the kind of journey you post aesthetic Instagram updates about. Because let’s be real: it’s complicated. I get it. When people stare, when they cock their heads or whisper behind hands, when […]

Has Everyone Lost Their Damn Minds? The Internet, Politics, and Supporting Each Other Again

It’s funny. The other day, I saw a post on Bluesky—yes, that newish social media space where all the Twitter exiles are hiding—and someone asked, “Are people who aren’t talking about politics getting any traction anymore?” I blinked at the screen and thought, Wow, what a very on-the-nose, 2025 question. It stuck with me. Not […]

Escaping to the Woods with Our RV, a Kid Named Bean, and Zero Regrets

We’re taking the RV and heading into the woods for some good old-fashioned R&R. And when I say R&R, I mean rest and real connection—the kind that doesn’t involve Wi-Fi, IEP meetings, or last-minute therapy cancellations. The twist? We’ve decided to leave the two teenagers home. Yep. We’re rolling the dice, crossing our fingers, and […]