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DVDs, Smoothies, & the Soft Refusal of a Monday

Ugh, it’s Monday. That sentence alone could stand in for the entire morning. The light came through the blinds too gray, too early. Like the sky forgot to turn itself on. I put on a sweater and a purple V-neck, layering comfort like armor. Shuffled toward the kitchen in my husband’s sweatshirt—the one with the […]

Educating with Grace: Why I’m Choosing Curiosity Over Outrage When People Stare at My Special Needs Daughter

Trying not to be a “Karen” about my special needs daughter when people stare or ask honest questions is… a journey. And not the kind of journey you post aesthetic Instagram updates about. Because let’s be real: it’s complicated. I get it. When people stare, when they cock their heads or whisper behind hands, when […]

Has Everyone Lost Their Damn Minds? The Internet, Politics, and Supporting Each Other Again

It’s funny. The other day, I saw a post on Bluesky—yes, that newish social media space where all the Twitter exiles are hiding—and someone asked, “Are people who aren’t talking about politics getting any traction anymore?” I blinked at the screen and thought, Wow, what a very on-the-nose, 2025 question. It stuck with me. Not […]

It’s Not You, It’s… Actually Me: Therapy, Autism, and Learning to Be Enough

Let’s get this part out of the way: My therapist has sent me two Autism evaluations. And I keep telling her—I’m autistic. Like, this isn’t news to me. It’s not a surprise. But apparently, getting the paper trail matters. For a long time, I minimized it. I masked it. I overcompensated. I played the part […]